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Why do so many marriages end up in domestic violence or divorce for the smallest things? Words are said, feelings are hurt and objects are tossed in a violent rage. All of this could have been avoided if  both parties would have: commonly sat down, thought first before they spoke and realized that it wasn't worth all that stress ...

Most of all, so many couples don't want to say the two magic words ... "I'm sorry". If these two words are pronounced with love and respect then the loving couple will remember why they joined hearts and said ... "I Do"... Husbands and wives all over the world, don't forget to set aside some spousal prayer time, a honest and heartfelt chat, sprinkled with this ...

 

Colossians 3:19 (NLT) ~ Husbands, love your wives and never treat them harshly.

 

Dear readers, now the above bible verse also works in a visa versa fashion too ...

Blessings,

Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Eureka ~ 25 Years

I have an inclination not to always believe everything I hear or read .... It could be based upon what martial counselors call the myth of the 7 year itch. If your in a daze about what I'm Implying, well allow me to explain it to you?

The 7 year itch is a concept that various couple's analyst took the time to researchers husbands & wife's of distinctive: ages, races, financial backgrounds and questioned them about how their felt about being married before, during and after 7 years. I read a few of the couples replies and it truly blew my mind! For example, a few couples that stated that their married life was going down hill because of the following: it didn't taste the same, boredom was knocking at their door and/or they needed to add a new chapter to their life's. Oh well, in order for democracy to go into effect,  along with the right to exercise freedom of speech, everyone must be able say what they feel, even if not everyone agrees ... 

 

In light of everything that I've presented to all of you, I'd like to conclude with the following. Life is  what you put into it and what you get out of it, is truly up to you. Despite the all the hoopla about the 7 year itch, in my opinion it's only another reason for couples not to be accountable for their foolish  actions. That's why I'll never stop thanking Jesus Christ for sprinkling our marriage with His heavenly advice and this too  ...

 

Genesis 2:24 (GW)  ~ That is why a man will leave his father and mother and will be united with his wife, and they will become one flesh. 

Blessings,

Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

ReaL Life

Repairs being made, bills to be paid and getting kids off to school ... That's the life of this husband and wife. Running around and acting like clowns, is what we have to do; so we don't go cuckoo.

Life is a race and once in a blue moon a person can lose their pace; because your mind isn't on what's ahead but what you've left behind ... If you truthfully think about it, that's the price most couples and parents tend to pay in order to maintain their family standing on solid ground ...
 

Deuteronomy 6:7 (NLT)

Repeat them again and again to your children. Talk about them when you are at home and when you are on the road, when you are going to bed and when you are getting

Blessings,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Operation Time

Husbands & wife's, this is for you! When you and your aren't seeing eye to eye on a particular subject, the last thing you should result to is this ...

Ephesians 5:4 (GW) ~ It’s not right that dirty stories, foolish talk, or obscene jokes should be mentioned among you either. Instead, give thanks to God.

Therefore, if you wish to live Happily Ever After, then ignore the 1st. part of the above verse and hold tightly in your hearts the last part ... Hallelujah

 

Blessings,

Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All RRights Reserved

Various Chapters

Our life is an open book, full of a variety of chapters to: read, adventure with, and stories to grow old with too. Our home is a classroom full of alot of horsing around, spiritual growth, while at the same time educational lessons that have shaped, formed and comforted us through those difficult days and nights ...

Before we bring this thought to a peace end, our professor is named Jesus Christ, now he doesn't believe in giving test; but he does agree that we should follow our dreams ... Awesome right? That's why I rejoice in this ...

 

Philippians 4:7 (HCSB) And the peace of God, which surpasses every thought, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.

Blessings,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

2 Red Cups

Anyone that takes a glims at our 2 cups may say to themselves, there's nothing special about them; however my GEM & I know the truth behind those 2 red cups. For us, those 2 cups symbolize our toughest moments and how we over came them with the sweetest gesture. Every time the enemy attempted to knock down the foundation of our unity, my Honey Bunny & I would do the following:

1. Pray
2. Hold Hands
3. Enjoy of cup of coffee, tea or hot coco ...

By doing this, we'd set aside all our troublesome times, the Pity party couldn't jump into effect. Hee Hee Hee ... The LORD used those 2 Red Cups to turn our frowns upside down ... Yea,

Blessings,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

LiKe Niagara Falls

The calling of the Lord fell over us like a ten ton truck. It started with my GEM when he was in his mommy's womb in the Dominican Republic. Now, the same thing transpired for me while I too, was in my mom's womb in the United States. Little did we know that God chose the day, month and year when our eyes would meet, first date would occur and especially when we'd say "I Do" ...

As time went on, the anointing hit us like Niagara Falls, filled with bricks instead of flowing water. Our Heavenly Father also blessed us with 4 wonderful sons and a Pastoral Ministry too. Two individuals were joined together as one, in every sense of the word. The Teaching and Preaching was birthed in two different locations and destined from above ...

By the grace of God, this Bible verse is definitely stamped in our hearts ...

Philippians 2:2 (ESV) Complete my joy by being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind.

Blessings,

Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved