Dismiss, the Petty Rationalization

Marriage isn't interpreted by how many debates a spouse wins, nor by the duration of a husband(man) or wife's(woman) lies ... Marriage is the joining of two hearts till death due they part ... #WeDo,

On the grounds that the bible states this ...

 

Genesis 2:24 (NKJV) -Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.

 

On that note, when you and your soul-mate have a misunderstanding of some sort(because you will because it's part of marital life), don't go insane and throw your husband/wife's clothing out the window, lock them out of the house and/or burn something that they value, in order to get back at them. Just try to relax, put yourself in their shoes and remember this too ...

 

Mark 10:9 (NLV) - Let no man divide what God has put together.

Now, go off and delight in this journey both of you call marriage ...
 

Blessings,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Have You Forgotten?

Get ready for the eye opening, jaw dropping and mind blowing blessings that the Lord has in store for you? That's why the devil has turned people against you for no apparent reason. People that used to joke around with you in a respectful manner, share a kind word or constantly reminded you that in a pinch, they'll come to your aid.

Now, what your experiencing at this moment is nothing compared to what God's about to release over your life ... Or have you forgotten what the bible says when it comes to blessings?

 

Proverbs 10:22 (NKJV) The blessing of the Lord makes one rich,
And He adds no sorrow with it.

Thus, lift your head up and remember what Jesus Christ has proclaimed over your life ...
 

Blessings,

Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

A Quick Observation

Marriage is similar to a roller coaster ride. For example, the couple enters together, experiences it's ups and downs, twist and turns and even a few occasional ruff spots around certain corners too ...

A quick observation, the same person that began this joyride with you, held your hand even when you felt a faint and is still the one that chats away your fears, consoles you when your feeling blue and lifts up your spirit like no other person on this planet ... Finally, their always willing to extend their loving hand to you when the ride concludes ...

The moral to this post is that a roller coaster ride is a metaphor for a loving marriage  ...  #Amen,

 

Blessings,

Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Thank You Jesus

My GEM is serenading me with his guitar, blowing kisses my way and whispering sweet thoughts into my hears. Lord have mercy, this man is truly a multi tasker when it comes to making my heart beat 90 miles per hour ... 

 

During all this lovely dovely stuff, our 4 joyful sons  are out like a light. WOW, my hubby truly knows how to push my romantic bottom ... Thank you Jesus for blessing me with such a caring man ...

#HaLLeLuJaH,

Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Two Innocent Babies

Conversations between couples can at times spiral roll in distinctive directions ... For the following reasons: one,  the male or female can feel a bit intimated, clam up and put a lid on their emotions even before the discussion starts. Or two, both of  them can eventually mature and grow as a couple, based upon the fact that their sincere with each other, just like two innocent babies  ...

Not to mention, whatever you share with your spouse during a discussion, make it your duty to address him or her with love and respect, this way those minor issues won't turn into major ones ... Why don't you try this on for size?

 

Proverbs 10:19 (HCSB) - When there are many words, sin is unavoidable, but the one who controls his lips is wise.

 

Blessings,

Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Let's Get ReaL?

Love just isn't a four letter word that's written on: postcards, notebooks or t-shirts. It's how you value the person you proves to love, respect and/or apparently forgive their silly mistake ...

Let's get more real when it comes to love? If the man or woman you love is dealing with some serious and unexpected issues, do you rush to your knees, aid them in prayer or do you go "A Wall" and join the crowd that's tearing him or her down? Did you know that this is what the bible suggest when it comes to love?

Galatians 5:22-23 (NCV) - But the Spirit produces the fruit of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23. gentleness, self-control. There is no law that says these things are wrong.

Which tree are you picking your fruit from?

 

#Words2Ponder,

Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Secrets shouldn't Exist!

The foundation to a loving and successful relationship is called trust ... Without trust, it's likely that a couple won't make it past 2 to 3 mouths. Statistic also show that couples that tend to withhold information from each other are only building endless walls of sorrow and unnecessary misunderstandings ...

Think about this before you confide more in a friend instead of the person your dating, engaged to or plan on marrying in the future ...

 

Proverbs 4:23 (NCV) - Be careful what you think, because your thoughts run your life.

PONDER THIS?

Introduce Jesus Christ into your life's, sprinkle a dab of love, respect, forgiveness and oh yes, trust ...

1 John 4:18 (NCV)  - Where God’s love is, there is no fear, because God’s perfect love drives out fear. It is punishment that makes a person fear, so love is not made perfect in the person who fears.  

Blessings,

Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved