God has placed in my husband's and my heart to lift up a prayer for all those women and men that are being physically, mentally and financially abused by the woman or man that one day said these words to them "I Love You" and "I Do" ... Whether those words were pronounced in a Church, at City Hall or during an intimate backyard ceremony, that still doesn't give them the right to hit you ...
Furthermore, those live in boyfriends or girlfriends that don't believe in the word commitment or help pay any bills; but dare to put their hands on you because they can't handle certain issues in a mature manner, truly need help! For their definition of love is misguided and if you don't open your eyes, one day a coroner will be called to your home. One quick question, if you have children with this person that obtains pleasure in beating you, what will happen to those sweet babies that are viewing "ALL" of this? Set aside your desires and think about them? Perhaps, what we're saying sounds harsh; but we've seen it numerous times and it ALWAYS ends in a tragic way. Ponder this, there are 2 people in a relationship and one of them don't wish or know how to comprehend the concept of dealing with anger, confusion and/or low self esteem in a calmer fashion ...
In conclusion, you deserve better, therefore please STOP making excuses for that individual or blaming yourself for the way she or he is treating you and seek help for yourself, and maybe the abuser will do the same. On account of this is what the bible says regarding this particular situation ...
Colossians 3:19 (NIV) - Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.
Please, don't forget to pray?
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Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola
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