Wednesday, June 26, 2013

"Definitely for You"

Two titles, one person and a bag full to the rim of non stop responsibilities to tend to; nonetheless we can't forget that some of you were first wife's, married to the man of your dreams before God blessed your wombs; with the fruit of bottom of your love ...

That's right loving wife's, I'm talking from experience, your children will always be your babies, needing you all through their: infantile, toddlers and you'll still witness their adolescent stages; however during all of that time, what's your husband supposed to do? Are you expecting him to bury his head in the ground like an ostrich? On the other hand, have you forgotten that both of you have anniversaries to celebrate, memories to create and a fire in both of your hearts that continues to burn - Till Death due you Part?
Keep this in your heart and mind 24/7 ...
Proverbs 14:1 (NLV) - The wise woman builds her house, but the foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.

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Friday, June 21, 2013

A Couple's Seminar

When a person is content with who they really are, where they've come from and how long it took them to get where they're at, while at the same time learning a wise lesson during that journey. Then and only then will you truly know who you are ...

This is crucial in a marriage, because if either spouse comes into the relationship not realizing their true sense of value, then any wind can blow them away. In addition to, leaving a deep emotional scar that only God and time can heal. In conclusion, prayer is essential in every moment of our life's ...
Psalm 119:58 (HCSB) ~ I have sought Your favor with all my heart; be gracious to me according to Your promise.
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Tuesday, June 11, 2013

Let's Talk

Why do so many marriages end up in domestic violence or divorce for the smallest things? Words are said, feelings are hurt and objects are tossed in a violent rage. All of this could have been avoided if  both parties would have: commonly sat down, thought first before they spoke and realized that it wasn't worth all that stress ...

Most of all, so many couples don't want to say the two magic words ... "I'm sorry". If these two words are pronounced with love and respect then the loving couple will remember why they joined hearts and said ... "I Do"... Husbands and wives all over the world, don't forget to set aside some spousal prayer time, a honest and heartfelt chat, sprinkled with this ...
Colossians 3:19 (NLT) ~ Husbands, love your wives and never treat them harshly.
Dear readers, now the above bible verse also works in a visa versa fashion too ...

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Thursday, June 6, 2013

Eureka ~ 25 Years

I have an inclination not to always believe everything I hear or read .... It could be based upon what martial counselors call the myth of the 7 year itch. If your in a daze about what I'm Implying, well allow me to explain it to you?

The 7 year itch is a concept that various couple's analyst took the time to researchers husbands & wife's of distinctive: ages, races, financial backgrounds and questioned them about how their felt about being married before, during and after 7 years. I read a few of the couples replies and it truly blew my mind! For example, a few couples that stated that their married life was going down hill because of the following: it didn't taste the same, boredom was knocking at their door and/or they needed to add a new chapter to their life's. Oh well, in order for democracy to go into effect,  along with the right to exercise freedom of speech, everyone must be able say what they feel, even if not everyone agrees ... 
In light of everything that I've presented to all of you, I'd like to conclude with the following. Life is  what you put into it and what you get out of it, is truly up to you. Despite the all the hoopla about the 7 year itch, in my opinion it's only another reason for couples not to be accountable for their foolish  actions. That's why I'll never stop thanking Jesus Christ for sprinkling our marriage with His heavenly advice and this too  ...
Genesis 2:24 (GW)  ~ That is why a man will leave his father and mother and will be united with his wife, and they will become one flesh. 

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